There are not many who can do what you do as a family law professional. It takes a lot of heart and tough love to help people divorce, especially when these couples are parents. You want to help make a positive difference in this unhappy situation, but when your clients argue about the color of the sky on any given day, it really makes your job a lot harder.
In order for you to effectively help your clients, they need to be able to put aside their hurt and anger & come to the table ready to communicate in a healthy way and in the right headspace to make compromises that are in the best interest of their children.
Unfortunately, there are not enough hours in the day for you to play the role of an educator, therapist, or any other part your client wishes for you to personify. This must be frustrating and exhausting for you!
How refreshing would it be if your client came to the table level-headed and ready to make child-focused decisions?